"It’s nice of you to care about his finances, but
remember he is deriving great pleasure from taking you out...
If you are following the rules religiously there is no reason to call him. He should be calling you.”
"Mr. Right titled "The Rules (TM): Time-Tested Secrets for Capturing the Heart of Mr. Right" by Ellen Fein and Sherrie Schneider
So the guy pays for dinner and he can't even expect a call back from the woman. He MUST do the calling. Why? Because she is entitled that's why.
One of the authors of the book is actually divorced but doesn't hesitate to give women relationship advice on the perfect man she herself can't seem to keep.