In order to understand those terms better, let's take a fist look at the questionnaire in the study to see how these are defined:
So we can summarize the definition of social sabotage as the following:
- Talking behind spouse's back
- Triangulation; pitting others against spouse
- Spreading negative rumors about spouse
- Demeaning or degrading spouse in front of others
- Deliberately spreading rumors to be mean
- Blackmailing spouse
- Giving silent treatment
- Intentionally ignoring spouse to get one's wishes
- Giving cold shoulder
- Emotional and sexual neglect
- Not pay attention to spouse
So women are 8% more likely to withdraw affection than husbands, and are 12% more likely to commit social sabotage.
And when controlling for marital conflict, the rates that women engaged in love withdrawing and social sabotaging increased even more:
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